Life with a busy family can feel like a juggling act, with everyone needing to be in 10 places at once and the never-ending to-do list! But here’s the truth: routines have been a game-changer for us. They’ve helped us manage our time, reduce stress, and find pockets of calm amidst the chaos. This week, we’re sharing our family’s routine journey, from chaotic beginnings to a system that works for us—and how it might work for you, too.
- Morning Routines: Setting the Tone for the Day
Mornings in our house used to feel like a mad dash to get everyone out the door. Now, we’ve simplified things with consistent wake-up times, a breakfast rotation, and even a 5-minute “tidy-up” before leaving.- Juli and I wake up early to make sure Fearne is ready for school, and we remind the boys upstairs to stick to their morning checklist.
- Tip: Prep the night before! Laying out clothes and packing lunches has saved us so much time.
- Afternoon/After-School Flow: Balancing Work and Play
The afternoons are a whirlwind, but having a set rhythm helps. Homework comes first, then chores, followed by free time for everyone.- For us, assigning clear tasks helps—everyone knows what needs to be done without constant reminders (or arguments!).
- Evening Routines: Winding Down
Nights are all about resetting and recharging. We make sure screens are off early, the internet gets switched off when I go to bed, and we encourage quiet activities like reading or journaling.- Fearne loves her bedtime story ritual, and even the teenagers are starting to see the benefits of an earlier bedtime (though it’s still a work in progress!).
Finding a routine that works for your family isn’t about perfection—it’s about progress. Every family is unique, so start with small changes and adjust as you go. If we can create a routine amidst the hustle and bustle, so can you! Share your wins, challenges, or ideas with us this week using #HarmonyInRoutines. We can’t wait to hear how your family finds its rhythm!
